In what you say of another, apply the test of kindness, necessity and truth, and let nothing pass your lips without a 2/3 majority. ~Liz Armbruster
Usually, I go for necessity and truth. Coz sometimes (or most of the time), no matter how kind your intentions are, when you put in necessity and the truth, you’re viewed as evil. Maybe because a lot of people like everything to go their way. As for some, they go for 1/3. Only necessity. And this necessity is just to feed their own ego. Because they are always right and they are never wrong. Always fast to blame coz they don’t have time to look into facts/truth. People make mistakes. Me included. But the difference between me (or you–if it applies) and the ‘others’ is this: I admit it when I am at fault (when I go like: realization strikes!) and I do my best to make things better… Whereas for the ‘others’, again… They are never wrong. Always oppressed. Always abused. Always right.